I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. Lilith conjunct Ascendant Thank you for this information! The same with nessus conjunct ASC? In fact, it is the opposite. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. Hello, what a great article, thank you. That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. Great questions. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. ami, what would nessus trine dejanira in synastry indicate. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? But, I will take sides with Sydney on this issue. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. I am having a hard time following your questions, Julia. It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. It may be off a few minutes and change things. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? Eros is also prominent in their synastry. Also, there is no abuse either way. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. Also, I try to be very direct to counter the tendency in many Astrologer not to take a stand. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. Eros contacts in synastry have been touted as creating attraction that cannot be denied. It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. That would seem to be the case but sometimes, the strength of these aspects get the better of us, so it is hard for me to answer. The chart allows one to see oneself. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? Is it relevant? As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. They have a very imaginative sex life. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. . Isis Conjunct the Vertex. Hi Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. Thanks! I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? I sense Saggi. Sorry for the late reply. Mars conj Saturn is not good. Hi! You do not have to do their chart. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. You have such a sweet spirit. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. I feel like it helps me. Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. Who is whom? YOU are the most important person to me. But I always have the feeling that people want to abuse/fool me in one way or another and they get surprised when I respond, I constantly need to stand up for myself in any sort of situation, from the cashier in the shop to colleagues at work. It makes me feel very crazy. We have no moon aspects will this help? Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. It can ruin possible healthy relationships. Powerful, you say? Wow. Mars/Pluto is more primal in a pure sexual way than Moon/Pluto which is more emotional and much more emotionally bonded. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? Is it a similar power to the conjunction? I have moon conjunct neptune and venus in 12th house. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. Thank you so much, Love. Your articles hit me hard again:-). His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. It always starts this way. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. I agree with Sydney. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. I dont really understand the aspect you are asking about. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. The conjunction is excact. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . I am sorry! Please post the charts. If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. Good afternoon, thank you for this article Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? Your email address will not be published. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. What conjuncts your Aura? Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Her theme is power-alluring and irresistible. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. My sun and deja are on his nn. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. Also, It doesnt suit me. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. This brings out their dark side. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 . Not sure which one id prefer. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. I am not asking you to do mine either. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. 3. If you see Nessus in synastry, make sure you know which side of the fence he is on. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. Maybe, maybe not. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. Next: Synastry Books Compared . I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. I dont mean to, but I think I find issues/hurts of my friends and partners and end up trying to mother them if thats what you meant. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? Or rather nessus and dejanira support negative aspects since these are asteroids. Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. You can say you did it and you can help the next person who comes along. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). In fact, it is the opposite. Can it be dangerous amiann? Thats not the truth. Who does whom, so to speak? Ami, hello. so what would it be? Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. I would have to consider the scenarios more. My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. Most important to me is that you find Jesus. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. (both in Capricorn) How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. About YOU being the Nessus with your b/f. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. If I had read this as a 14-16 year old, I wouldve been waiting everyday for my mother to start emotionally, mentally, or physically abusing me, and it would have put me in a constant state of fear because I didnt know much about astrology or how complex and fluid it is. Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. Lovely, Lo! Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Not good, my Friend. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. Aww Fluffy I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! Thank you =). I should have replied to the previous post, as it was a continuation of the conversation we had started. Hmm The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously. I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. ? But interested to see how things unfold. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. under what theme of the forum? Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. I do charts for the people who want them. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. You may be fated to marry. If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. It is like sky diving. Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. Yes, it would. Have you tried? This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. That would be my guess. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. Come and post the charts. for example a 1.46.. or 2? Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. That never ceases to amaze me, either! How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. Thanks you, Jos. And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. That is my commitment to my readers. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. My Nessus square his Venus Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? so, quick question, where do I post it? The chart never lies, my Friend. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. Still, even without the conjunction, I have Nessus in the 1st house, which would make me abusive, according to these theories, and I dont fit. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. His abuse asteroid on her midheaven would be her reputation and career, right? it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. That is the nature of the DSC. Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Not eros. Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. The chart shows the TRUTH. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. It is valued! Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. Relationships that provoke her and Eros, although excruciatingly potent at times, serve as a meeting place for both divine figures. Youll have to use your judgement here. We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! There are many, many possibilities in astrology, even infinite if Im speaking on the complexity of each persons chart. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! That is what I was saying. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. I am prone to being attacked in this way. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira.
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